Gay Wedding Tradition: Two Aisles
Many gay and lesbian couples choose to process to the front of their sacred ceremony space down not one, but two aisles. Jen and I did this; each of our attendants alternated going down the respective aisle, then Jen and I walked parallel to each other simultaneously.
It's fairly common for a number of reasons, the main one being that in a gay or lesbian wedding, there is not necessarily a "bride" who is expected to be the center of attention. Many gay and lesbian couples who are marrying have been together already for years and want to walk separately and meet in the middle.
Regardless of whether the two aisles are parallel or coming in from opposite sides of the room, this two aisle processional is a nightmare for a photographer without an assistant! I've had a few photographers attempt to talk me out of this processional and even one trying to change it at the last minute. While there is something to be said about getting amazing wedding photographs and you'll never hear me argue otherwise, I do feel that it's important to honor this emerging gay and lesbian wedding tradition.
If you are considering having two aisles instead of one central aisle, I highly recommend that you invest in a photographer's assistant if you are concerned about capturing both of your moments in the spotlight!