One of the coolest things about my job is meeting amazing couples, many
of whom come here from other states to legally marry. It's one of the
many things that makes my career as a wedding planner so fulfilling. I
love producing weddings and being the architect of it all - but more
importantly to me, I know I am helping LGBT couples get their equal
I had such an opportunity back in August when Frank and Matt from
Arkansas hired me for a Vows plus package, which involved the license
in one day, cake, flowers, a ceremony location (they chose a church in
Brewster), photographer and dinner reservations for their ten guests.
Most of my planning with these couples is done by phone and email so
meeting in person is always a treat. One of the things that Frank and
Matt shared with me is that they are one of the plaintiffs in a case brought by the ACLU against the State of Arkansas, seeking to end the ban on adoption by unmarried couples
, which was a law passed last November by a voter referendum and was designed to discriminate against the LGBT community.
This week I was walking around my neighborhood and stopped by someone
from the ACLU looking for my support and that young person mentioned
this case. I feel such a personal connection to this case because I
adore these great guys.
These are the kinds of guys, who have returned home to Arkansas,
legally married with a relationship legitimized by a government, who
are changing hearts and minds about the issue of gay marriage - just by
knowing them, hearing their story and seeing how in love they are.
Their decision to be part of that ACLU case is just a bonus.
Here they are on their wedding day - and by the way, you should consider supporting the ACLU
Photo by Zoom-Photography.