Weddings Redefined

Wedding Pride magazine is a new print magazine that just launched in New York City and I believe it will also be a resource for Fire Island gay wedding planning.   I was honored to have a piece of my book on the same-sex wedding registry excerpted in the magazine, as well as be interviewed for a few other articles.  Check out a couple of the articles here (though I didn't upload the one about bachelor and bachelorette parties) or read the whole issue here.  It's a great resource for gay wedding planning in New York!

GO Magazine, the nation's most widely distributed lesbian magazine just named me one of the top 18 Red Hot Entrepreneurs in the U.S. in their special Workin' It issue (and the only wedding planner featured).

If you can't read the text, there's a quote from me which says, "I have this weird balance of being Super Type A-wedding planner/fierce client advocate and also really laid back.  My clients like that because I'm always chill and calm around them, but they have the confidence that I'm kicking ass and have it all under control."

Apparently I said that!  (It's true, though...)

Last week I did an interview with Tony Cox of National Public Radio's Tell Me More program.  During the interview, I spoke about some of my observations over 7+ years of planning gay weddings!  This was my third NPR interview this year - it's fun!

You can listen to the piece right here!

We are honored to be included among such talented peers as Bryan Rafanelli and Marcy Blum on The Daily Meal's List of 50 People You Should Know When Throwing a Party!  This list represents talented event planners, caterers and designers from all across the U.S.  It's a great honor to be known as one of the top talents in wedding planning in Boston and New York - and we are the only business that specializes in gay weddings to make the list!

The past few weeks were exciting for us - the press stemming from our New York office has been phenomenal.  Check out some of the following articles, especially the L.A. Times piece.  

We were even on the Today Show talking about the economic benefit of gay weddings:

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and also NY1 and the BBC!

Jen and I were in New York last weekend looking at neighborhoods and trying to figure out the best place to raise Patrick (and possibly another kid!).  It's an exciting time for us and we appreciate your support of our journey!  

Lots of love-
Bernadette, Jen and Patrick

I'm so excited to finally share this beautiful real wedding with you.  I had to hold off because it was published in this issue of Destination Weddings and Honeymoons magazine and magazines require that real weddings not be published anywhere else until the issue comes out.  We are proud that this wedding was that mainstream wedding magazine's first same-sex wedding.  

So, the story...this is the story of Deb and Michelle.  They met online and promptly fell in love, and literally within months were engaged and calling 14 stories, from Columbus, Ohio, to plan their wedding.  Their vision was an intimate and relaxed wedding weekend experience on Cape Cod, with only about a dozen guests, all of whom were traveling in to share the joy.

We promptly suggested one of Cape Cod's most spectacular vacation rentals, a stunning 7 bedroom property, and they booked it immediately.  We orchestrated airport shuttles down to the Cape.  14 stories did all of the floral design.  Each guest room had a small floral arrangement, a welcome bag and the guests' name on a calligraphed door sign.  We arranged beautifully catered dinners on Friday and Saturday evenings, including a fun Friday night on the deck with s'mores and snuggies.  The entire experience was relaxed, elegant, intimate and fun for all and captured perfectly by the incredible photography of JAG Studios.

When I was a freshman in college at Boston University, I got an internship at WBUR, our local, Boston-area National Public Radio station.  It was so exciting being there, in the world of media and news and I loved every second behind the scenes.

The internship lasted a semester and I moved on and that was the end of that.

And then a few years post college, before this whole gay wedding planning business came about, I was really struggling with what to do with my life, just like many mid-twenty-somethings.  I was an avid listener of Car Talk and was once on the show with my own car-related question, "I'm good with my hands.  Should I be a mechanic when I grow up?"  I think we all know the answer to that one, but it was fun to be on the radio nonetheless.

Fast forward eight or nine years and here I am, a gay wedding planner, loving every minute of it, and NPR calls me to do an interview on music at gay weddings.  Of course!!  If there's anything I know something about, it's gay weddings and music is one of my favorite subjects.  And I love that so much of the music I hear at my clients' gay weddings is the same music that I was personally dancing to at clubs when I was newly out.  

So, without further ado, here's the interview for your listening - my thoughts on gay wedding music!

What kind of music is being played at your wedding?  Are you sticking with traditional wedding songs or going a more contemporary, pop route?

Robbie and Allen live in California and are competing to win $100,000 towards their wedding in the Crate and Barrel Ultimate Wedding Contest.  These two grooms are legally marrying in Massachusetts with a big celebration afterwards in California.

You can vote for them here!


Professional photos by Prideful Engagements.

Note:  these grooms are not our clients so we have no investment in their win, other than to see a gay couple win the contest for the first time!

Boston Spirit Magazine was kind enough to interview us for some expert advice for their readers, as well as feature four of our 2010 weddings.  Check out the fantastic article below!

It's About Time received prime mention on Travel and Leisure.com.

Check out the article!