I have heard from several other newlyweds who have described their state post-wedding as downright depressing. It makes sense - after all of the planning and anticipation and pressure, the momentum comes to a screeching halt. Although I have a bit of post-wedding blues, I'm comforted by a quote I once heard in a movie: "Happiness is having something to look forward to." Maybe that's why I'm a planner - I am fueled by momentum and the excitement of whatever is coming next.
Our honeymoon was the first big vacation we took in a year and a half but is was a good reminder that those pampering trips are absolutely necessary so we're planning more of them - and even the short ones to Provincetown and Montreal will be wonderful. Something to look forward to.
You may be looking forward to your wedding and/or your trip to Boston or the Cape for your wedding/honeymoon. What are you most excited about in your life and why?
If you are already married, how did you beat the post-wedding blues?
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