They've been legally married for two years now. The process of changing one's name is pretty easy if you live in a state where gay marriage is legal and you are legally married. All you have to do is show the certified copy of your marriage certificate to the Social Security administration, then the RMV, then everywhere else. You're golden.
If you live in a state where gay marriage is not legal, in all likelihood, you'll have to change your name through the court system. I actually had a couple tell me that they were denied a name change by a homophobic judge. It's not just but that's the way it is for now, as long as DOMA stands.
Are you planning to have your name changed when you get married?
Wednesday, August 11, 2010 | Permalink