Did you hear the story about the lesbian couple who were planning a Vermont gay wedding and wanted to have their wedding at an inn but were told they couldn't, just because they were gay?
The couple just sued the inn, because they learned that Vermont has an anti-discrimination law making it illegal to discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation. 21 U.S. states have such a law and 29 do not. That means that in states such as Georgia, Florida and Texas, it's perfectly legal for a business to discriminate against you of sexual orientation and/or gender identity. To find out the deal in your state, click here or call the Lambda Legal help desk.
Why should you care? Well, you may be gay wedding planning in New York or elsewhere and it's important to know your rights. A New York town clerk already resigned rather than issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples. The law in New York barely passed. And while New York City is very progressive and great for gay wedding planning, it's a BIG state and you should be careful when you're planning your gay wedding.
Come out of the closet right away when calling vendors - even the ones you find through an online gay wedding directory or through google ads. You never know who will answer the phone. Only hire people who give you a good vibe, who you feel like will have your back. There's no reason that you should be treated any differently than straight couples.
Have you encountered any issues when calling vendors during your wedding planning?
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